What’s the Difference?

When it comes to love, what’s the difference boys and girls feel about it?  Some say girls tend to feel with their hearts and boys tend to feel with their heads or minds.  When it comes to feelings and Love, Musiq Soulchild says/sings it best….

Love

So many things I’ve got to tell you

But I’m afraid I don’t know how

Cause there’s a possibility

You’ll look at me differently

Love

Ever since the first moment I spoke your name 

From then on I knew that by you being in my life

Things were destined to change cause

Love…

(Wellllah!  I love this song!  Literally AND figuratively 😍) 

 According to hugelovers.blogspot.com, the difference between boys and girls feelings in love is no difference at all.   I agree!  When it comes to love, there is no difference in feelings.  However, according to hugelovers.blogspot.com, there IS a difference in actions…..

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Question: So, when it comes to love and relationships what’s the difference?  What say you? 

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I’m Lookin’ For A New Love

Just got paid, it’s Friday night
Party hopping, feeling fine…

I’m looking for a new love, baby…
FOUND HIM…

Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree
I travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody’s looking for something

And this is mine. If ‘he’ could talk, he would say I’m your baby tonight!

Just Got Paid – Johnny Kemp
Looking For A New Love – Jody Watley
Sweet Dreams (Are Made Of This) – Eurthmics
I’m Your Baby Tonight – Whitney Houston

I Don’t Know You!

You meet online. You like. You want to get to know them. So, how do you get to know someone? You exchange emails? No! You exchange phone numbers. You text. They text you back. You text, they text and you text back and forth. Why not call? ” I don’t know them!”, you say. Hmmm….

First comes love lust. Then, comes marriage sex and baby in a baby carriage meet the family and friends! Baby, come to me!! Sing it you two ( James Ingram & Patti Austin)! Let’s move in together?, they say. “I don’t know you like that!”, you say. R-i-g-h-t.

You know them. But, you don’t know-them know them.

So, again I ask how do you get to know someone?

Deal Breaker

Everyone talks about them. Talk about things they just don’t like and/or things they won’t accept. So, does everyone have them? Are they different depending on the topic? When it comes to a job, we won’t accept anything less than a certain dollar amount. When it comes to the type of car we drive or where we live, we choose to accept certain things versus other things. For example, when buying a car it must have doors, brakes and a windshield all in good condition. We won’t accept anything less. Not having these things means we don’t accept the deal and walk away. Thus, deal breakers.
So, when it comes to love, what can you say you will or will not accept?

I once dated a man who loved to eat meat. Me, not so much. Don’t get me wrong. I like meat, but meat doesn’t like me! I have to respect that as our relationship and move on. So, I eat a lot of seafood. I digress. We once had an argument because “I didn’t eat one piece of meat that whole weekend.” Nooooo. Yes. That was my deal breaker. That was the last straw that broke the camel’s back. Needless to say, we broke up.

What’s your last straw? When it comes to dating, what’s your deal breaker?

Terms & Conditions

Girl meets guy. Girl likes guy. Guy likes girl. Girl and guy become friends. Guy wants to become more than friends. Girl, however just wants to remain friends.
So, what’s a guy to do? Condition #1: He buys her a gift. A birthday gift. What’s a girl to do! You say? She accepts the gift! “We’re just friends.”, she says.
Condition #2: “I know you’ll buy me a birthday gift just as nice one day.”, he says. Yes! Next step, group date night! Girl agrees to go out with friends him.
Surprise. Surprise. The friends can’t make it. Darn. And what-ya-know….It’s a date! That’s what guy tells friends. “We’re just friends!”, girl says to friends. We’re more than friends”, guy replies. Girl is now in shock.
Terms of their relationship: If, then.. If I do this, then she’ll do that. If I say this, then he’ll hear that. Well, hate to tell you this, but actions speak louder than words! Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words! Always!

What terms and conditions do your actions say?