Category Archives: Love and Relationships

Relationship Status 


Say it!  Claim it!  Own it!   Ask and you shall find.  Better yet, ask and you shall receive.  Put it out there!  Now, I didn’t say put out! 😳 I said put it out there, it being your relationship status.   First and foremost ( I always wanted to say that😉)!, let’s  just get that out of the way!  I need to know😊

If your relationship status is “complicated”, keep it movin’.  If you are married (legally, common law or otherwise), get to steppin’.  Relationship status is important (to me).  Need I say more?!

Question: Is someone’s relationship status important to you?  Why or why not?

Hello & Goodbye

Well, well, well. It’s that time of the year. The end of the year to be exact.

Lookin’ back over my years
I guessed, I’ve shedded some tears
Told myself time and time again
This time I’m gonna win

But another fight, things ain’t right
I’m losin’ again
Takes a fool to lose twice
And start all over again

Think I’d better let it go
Looks like another love T.K.O.
Think I’d better let it go, let it go, baby
Looks like another love T.K.O.

Tried to take control of the love
Love took control of me
‘Cause you lose all thoughts, sense of time
And have a change of mind

Takin’ the bumps and the bruises
Of all the things of a two-time loser
Just tryin’ to hold on, faith is gone
It’s just another sad song

I think I’d better let it go
Looks like another love T.K.O.
Yes, I think I’d better let it go, let it go, baby
Looks like another love T.K.O.

I think I’d better let it go
Looks like another love T.K.O.
Yes, I think I’d better let it go, let it go, baby
Looks like another love T.K.O.

Sing it, Teddy! Oh! Love got a hold on meeeeee bad! So, I started to reflect back on love. Love of my life, love of me, myself and I, plus love of life in general ( that’s a lot!).

Then, I came across the top ten of my 2014…

Thanks, Bobbi. Why didn’t I apply these to everything gosh darn-it?!😚
That’s good stuff! Yet, I need come up with a new list. Out with the old (year) and in with the new (year)…

Good lookin’ out, girl! I love this pic!

I’m thinking ten is too long. I want to shorten it. How about ninja chop it in half?! Yes. But, wait. That’s even too long. One wise woman recently shared three things with her facts of Lyfe ( and ( I feel like Slick Rick and his Children’s Story) here we go….

1) Live life with no regrets
2) Be kind to others
3) Know your God

Three. Thaaaaat’s right! Three and recycle. This is my new (year) motto!
Let’s toast….

First glass to 2014. Goodbye, Bye, Bye, Bye! Second glass to 2015 with ‘Well, hello!’ ( in my best Wendy Williams voice) “How you doin’?!”

I’m gonna…

Put on my big girl boots, grab my bag and my notepad and I’m ready to do this!

5-4-3-2-1 HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Q: What are ready to say hello &/or goodbye to and why?

Love TKO~Teddy Pendergrass
Children’s Story ~Slick Rick
Bye, Bye, Bye~N Sync


Speaking of naughty or nice, I had to ask myself that same question.


Well, ho-ho-ho I am not! So, nice it must be, right? Right. Or at least that’s what I thought. Then, I read my weekly horoscope….

Scorpio (October 23-November 21): When anyone takes an entitled attitude with you, it’s game over. Sure, you can be extreme in your loyalty and too giving, but you’re a passionate lady and you don’t care unless you want to. If anyone takes advantage of that, there is only so much space for forgiveness and so much time left until the beginning of the end. It’s unfortunate for them that they are only human.

Dang! Ouch! That hurt. That’s such a bad way to end the year AND start a new (year)! I mean, I was told…

It did! It did! It did! So, what the *#+!
Hold up. Wait a minute. Let me put some boom in it….


I’m on the good ship, I mean list again! Good credit that is! Look-a-there! I’m movin’ on up! To the east gold side, to a deluxe apartment account in the sky. I mean Cloud. I’m Movin’ On Up!

Yes sure-ree Bob/Dee-Dee! Good credit will take you places! It’s taking me right into the new year!

Question: Is your credit right, tight and good??? Why or why not?

Naughty or Nice

He sees you when you’re sleeping, he knows when you’re awake, he knows when you’ve been bad or good so be good for goodness sake! Sing it like you mean it, right! I gave it my Eartha Kitt all!

Santa Lord, hear my cry…


Scream! I’m singing again. On the good ship sleigh lollipop
This is what the nice list will get you 💝

Thanks Santa!🎅

Question: Were you recently surprised? When and/or how?

On The Good Ship Lollipop by Shirley Temple